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Patient Interview:
Donata Reeve, Connecticut
Dr. Wilson interviewed Donata Reeve by telephone.
To provide some background, Donata was being seen by her own doctor.
Her sister recommended another doctor, Dr. Michelle Pulio, ND.
Dr. Pulio then referred Donata to Dr. Michael (pronounced McCale)
Friedman, ND. She was suffering from Fibromyalgia and Chronic
Fatigue Syndrome which responded very well to the WT3
protocol and FibroCare.
She experienced a bit of a relapse which improved with the addition
of ThyroCare. She's been
off the WT3 protocol for more than 6 months and is
still doing extremely well. You can click on the links in the
stories to hear some of Donata's comments in her own voice. The
text covered in each link is highlighted in red. Of course, you
will need to have your computer speakers plugged in and turned
on.
Dr. Wilson: How long have you been sick, what was bothering
you the most, and when did you start treatment?
Donata: I
was sick for 3 ½ years, that
I was diagnosed, with the Fibromyalgia and the Chronic Fatigue.
I started program [WT3 protocol and WTSmed Supplements]
1 year ago Thanksgiving, about this time last year, I completed
program May or June of this year and I feel wonderful! (Laughs)
Matter of fact, I ran into a friend of mine
tonight whose daughter is suffering severely from it and I said,
"If she doesn't do this she's a fool." She said, "Well
she's very skeptical about natural healing." And I said, "Tell
her to call me and I'll talk to her."
Dr. Wilson: What all did you do to get better?
Donata: [Dr. Friedman] and I discussed the program and I
decided to go on it. And I stuck with it. It took me a little bit
longer than he said most do but I guess everybody's body is a little
different, I just did what he told me to do. And I found that the
first probably couple of months I didn't see a dramatic change but
I did see some change so I knew something good was happening. When
I went off program I did really good for about a month and then
it was like I crashed and burned. Then I got really discouraged.
Then he called me one day and we talked and he said "Come back,
let's just do something else". And he checked me again and
he said I don't think it's really the same issues. He said, "I
think you just need some extra supplements in your diet just to
keep you going." And
that's what we did, we introduced some more daily supplements
and ever since I've been wonderful (laughs), absolutely wonderful.
And I'm going back to the gym now, I mean doing things I couldn't
do a year ago. I feel good, I'm not exhausted like I used to.of
course you know you get tired every day but that's normal. But before,
I would come home and literally get home from work and sit on the
couch and fall asleep and my husband would come home at nine and
find me sound asleep on the couch, I'd go from there to the bed.
And of course with the chronic fatigue I would wake up periodically
during the night and wouldn't sleep good and then I couldn't fall
asleep. So now I'm finding that, of course because I go to the gym
I have a little more energy at night. I come home and I get some
more things done. I go to bed every night at the same time, and
I get up every day at the same time, even on the weekends, and I
find that if I keep that schedule that I get enough rest, I feel
good, I feel refreshed the next morning. I try to eliminate as much
stress in my life as I possibly can which is hard because we all
have stress in our lives.
Other than that, I did what he told me to do and it worked.
Dr. Wilson: Do you remember the supplements that you needed?
I
take the FibroCare every day.
I take ThyroCare.
Dr. Wilson: Were you taking the ThyroCare and the FibroCare
with the T3?
Not the ThyroCare but the FibroCare yes.
[She was on the T3 and the FibroCare and did great and then started
falling back and then she started the ThyroCare and turned around
a relapse.]
I think we found with me I needed more [than the T3 alone] only
because I think I had a lot of other complicating issues that just
dragged me out more. I think it has a lot to do with heredity. My
dad's diabetic.
Dr. Wilson: Well it is amazing how baffled the doctor's
are with fibromyalgia and here you are doing something that works.
Some people get better with T3 alone, and some with FibroCare and
ThyroCare alone, and some with both. How much of what you experienced
do you feel was from the T3 and how much was from the herbs (FibroCare
and ThyroCare)?
Donata: I think personally the FibroCare helped me with
the pain, the body pain, and the discomfort of those body aches
but I do think the T3 treatment helped me overall. The only way
I can describe it is that it centered me again. Where I like my
body was off kilter.it wasn't right, and I think that [T3] brought
me back to being centered being back to where my body should be
running normally, functioning properly. And then the FibroCare just
helped with the other pains and aches that I had and those two worked
very well for me. And then when I got off treatment program and
then I found a month or a month and a half after, starting to feel
sluggish again and I thought "Oh no, what's wrong, I felt great?"
[Because] I
remember the day I reached my temperature
and I called Michael [her doctor] screaming on the phone I was so
excited I felt wonderful! It was like I woke up that day, the cloud
had lifted. I felt terrific! Oh my gosh, I can't believe how wonderful
I feel! And then that feeling lasted just for so long and
then I felt this slipping effect again. And when I called him and
said, "I'm really discouraged." And he said, "Nah,
Ah. Just come see me." So then we did the test of the temperature
thing again to make sure my body temperature wasn't slipping and
it wasn't. And he said, "So, I don't feel you need any more
T3. We just need to keep your running smoothly. He said, "I
think you're just one of those people that.It's like a multi-vitamin,
you need something every day to keep you going."
Dr. Wilson: "And that's when he started the ThyroCare
how long did it take when you started the supplements before you
started feeling better again?
Donata: I would say a couple of weeks to really get it into
my body and to feel a tremendous difference. I mean I wasn't anywhere
near as bad as I was when I first went to visit him but I could
tell that I was starting to feel sluggish again. Where I had all
this pep and energy and gosh, I couldn't wait to get home and do
this and do that.and then all of a sudden it was like, "Uh
Oh, I'm falling back into this pattern where I didn't feel like
doing anything anymore." And I was finding at 2 o'clock in
the afternoon at work I was fighting to keep my eyes open, then
I felt like I really needed a nap. And then once he put me on the
ThyroCare and the other supplements and he said to me, "I want
you to stay on these for six months and do them every day three
times a day," within a few weeks I just felt better. It's like,
"Okay this is the right combination for me, this is what I
need to feel and stay healthy." So that's what I do every
day.
Dr. Wilson: Do you anticipate taking that for life or do
think you'll be able to wean off of it eventually, or do you have
a feel for that?
Donata: He said he didn't think I'd be on it for life. He
said the FibroCare is something that definitely will not hurt me
to take every day. And as far as I'm concerned I feel as long as
I feel good on it and it's not harming my body in any way I don't
mind taking it every day, it's preventive medicine.
Dr. Wilson: And how about the ThyroCare, the same with that?
Donata: Yeah, he feels that those two are a really good
combination for me right now. He said maybe down the road I won't
need the ThyroCare anymore. But the FibroCare
because of the Fibromyalgia, he said "It's just preventative,
if you want to stay on it it's up to you, if you want to go off
it that's up to you." Right now, I guess I just feel so good
taking it that I'm almost afraid not to take it. So I feel if I'm
feeling good and I'm staying healthy it's preventive medicine, it's
like taking a daily vitamin.
Dr. Wilson:
On a scale of 1
to 10, with one feeling terrible and ten being terrific like you
were feeling at your best, where would you say you were when you
started treatment?
Donata:
Oh gosh, probably a one or a two.
Dr. Wilson: And then at the peak of
treatment when your temperature was up and you were feeling really
well, and I mean before your relapse, the best you were before your
relapse?
Donata:
I was probably an 11 or 12, I felt wonderful! I felt like God gave
me a new life.
Dr. Wilson:
And then with your relapse?
Donata: I probably fell down to a
7. Not far, but enough that I noticed the difference.
Dr. Wilson:
And where would you say you are now?
Donata: Oh! 10, 11.[laughs] I feel
good, I really do. It's wonderful to get up in the morning, not
feel miserable, not feel like, "It's a chore to get out of
bed.I don't want to go to work.." I look forward to my days.
I enjoy my evenings.I feel like I've been given a chance at life
again.
Dr. Wilson:
Wow. So you've been off T3 for 5 or 6 months and as far as you know
your temperature is still normal?"
Donata: Right. I feel good, I really
do. I mean I have my days, I'm not saying that every day is absolutely
perfect, everybody has their days [laughs].
Dr. Wilson: So you're still on ThyroCare and FibroCare would
you say you have any more symptoms of Fibromyalgia?
Donata: I think that they're there. I think the possibilities
of them coming back are real. I don't think it ever goes away, away.
I think it's a manageable condition now because I can find that
if I have a very stressful day I can feel it.
Dr. Wilson:
OK, so that's terrific.
Boy! So you were a one.
Donata:
I thank God about you every day, you have no idea [laughs]. You
and Michael, I've said you're my saviors [laughs]. And I tell everybody
that I know, this is the way to go [laughs].
Dr. Wilson: And how long were you a one or a two?
Donata: Oh, probably 3 ½ years.
Dr. Wilson: Golly, so that must have been hard.
Donata: It was. My medical doctor wanted me to go on antidepressants
and I said, "No,
you don't understand, I am not a depressed person, I am a very happy
person I'm depressed now because I don't feel good. When someone
doesn't feel well that's what happens. Because I don't
want to put stuff in my body. I want to find what causes
it, get to the root of the problem, and get rid of it."
And he just couldn't help me.
So I had my consultation visit with Dr. Friedman and we went through
things and he said, "Do you want to do this?" And I said,
"There's
no question, yeah I want to do it. I realize it's costly I realize
it's an expense but you know what? You can't put a price on your
health," so I did it. And I brought
two members of my family in and he's treated my niece, he's treated
my brother-in-law, he's treated friends of mine that I've sent to
him and they're all thankful that I sent them."
Dr. Wilson: I really appreciate your talking with me about
this.
Donata: Anytime.
Dr. Wilson: Of course I believe it and Michael believes
it, because we've seen it before, but you're saying that you were
just totally debilitated with a disease that most people consider
untreatable, and now it's almost completely gone...
Donata: I can live a normal life.
Dr. Wilson: It's manageable and the symptoms are under control
and you're living a normal life and that supposedly doesn't exist.
So in a way, what you're saying is not believable to some people.
So how do you reconcile that? How do make sense of that? Or how
might you help others make sense of that? How can that be?
Donata: I think that many people, doctors included, don't
believe that you can get better. I say, "You saw me
before, you see me now, there's two different people here."
The proof is in the pudding. It's a matter of ignorance, if it's
not in a doctor's own "textbook" of knowledge he doesn't
seem to be intereseted in it. It's almost as if the doctor can't
believe that there are maybe other ways of helping people that he's
not yet heard about. For example, I went to see an endocrinologist
and presented to him the program that worked for me and he looked
at me like I was a crackpot and wasn't even interested in looking
at it and handed it right back to me.
Dr. Wilson: How
would you answer this? We get this a lot. People ask us "If
this worked that well it would be on the front pages, or every doctor
would do it, If this worked half as well as you say it does everybody
would know about it by now.
Donata:
Well I just say that the American Medical Association is pretty
blind. They don't want to accept it. I feel sometimes that the medical
profession doesn't really want to heal people because it stops them
from coming to see them. It stops their income so to speak. "If
I can give you a pill this week and this takes care of it, well
you'll be back in two months because you'll have another problem."
Why fix something? Because if you fix something then you lose your
income. I mean that's the way I see it, and it's probably wrong
but I saw what my medical doctor did. He wanted me to come
back every month and every month and every month and every month
and for what?" for 15 minutes of talking and he couldn't
do anything for me? I was wasting his time, he was wasting my time.
I wish they would do something I wish they would put it out
there and let the world know that there is something that can help
women and men, mostly women of course who suffer from his horrible
disease to recover from it. Because there's no reason anyone should
have to suffer.
Dr. Wilson: So you think mainly it's just that they're not
really looking for a cure, or that they're not really wanting people
to get better?
Donata: And I think that there's still a lot of ignorance
to that illness. My own doctor said to me, "I don't know anything
about this illness, I do not know how to treat you." He was
honest. He's a cardiologist, that's his field, but he's also my
medical doctor and he was very honest about it. And he said, "I'd
don't know what to do for you. I can send you to a rheumatologist."
But what's he going to do for me? They wanted to start sticking
needles in my hips and start shooting me up with cortisone just
to get rid of the pain. You know, "I don't want you puncturing
my bones [laughs] and the rest of my body and putting in medicine
that may or may not help and may cause another condition
somewhere else down the road!"
Dr. Wilson: Your views are interesting because you were
seeing a regular medical doctor and he was recommending antidepressants
and different things, and then you heard about a natural medical
approach and then you explored that and fortunately ran into Michael
with it [she laughs gratefully]. Right now you're really glad you
did it but at the time, it was almost like a last because you had
to do something.
Donata: Exactly.
Dr. Wilson: So you were open-minded enough to do something
different. I'm trying to get a feel for how odd it must have been
for you, to go from a situation where it's hopeless and then go
for a last straw. Everybody says if it's too good to be true it
probably isn't [Right. she laughs]. You go for a last straw and
you know that the chances of it really working are probably slim,
and yet for it to pay off so well for you, what's wrong with this
picture? How did you reconcile that?
Donata: It blew me away. Because of course, we're always
skeptical. I didn't really know a whole lot about holistic medications
or treatments or how holistic medicine worked in itself. But
I was willing to try something and I don't like putting chemicals
in my body. And that was probably the biggest thing that forced
me that way. Because it seemed like all my alternatives were always
"It's going to be a pill of this, it's going to be a shot of
that." It was always something. Like I said I worked from my
teenage years until I was 28 years old in a hospital. I worked around
sick people and I saw what different things did. And I thought,
"You know, what do I have in front of me for the rest of my
life? I'm only 47 years old, am I going to be in a wheelchair by
the time I'm 55 because I can't walk anymore because the pain is
so great? Or am I going to be walking with a walker? Or am I not
going to be able to go on trips anymore and enjoy life? Because
I love to travel and my husband travels three-times a year for his
company and he loves me to go with him and I love to go with him.
And I found that I lost desire to do these things. And I said, "You
know, I have to find a way to get better so that I can enjoy my
life again but I have to find a way that I feel comfortable with
doing it. And I don't want to put something in my body that's
going to make me spacey, incoherent during the day, make me feel
like I'm not in control of myself. I just did not want to do any
of those things. So I knew the only other way would be, obviously,
the natural way because I know now I'm not putting anything foreign
in my body. I felt, "OK this is my last straw, somebody's going
to have to help me here [laughs]. If I could get, even if it was
a little relief I was happy because the pain was just so great and
I was just so miserable that anything was an improvement. And
never ever did I ever expect going into it
when I first met with Michelle [who turned me over to Michael] that
I would ever feel like my old self again. And everyone I talk to
who knew me prior to the recovery period as I call it, look at me
and say, "Oh my God, I can't believe it!"
I just ran into a friend of mine tonight
at the grocery store who I haven't seen in, oh, probably three years.
And she looked at me and she said, "Oh my gosh, you look wonderful!"
She said, "I've been meaning to call you. My daughter is suffering
from fibromyalgia so bad I wondered how you were feeling. but obviously
you're doing well!" And I went off in the grocery store [laughs],
giving her my testimony, there! I gave her Dr. Murphy's name and
said, "Please have your daughter call him. get her down there.
if she has any questions have her call me.here's my phone number.."
I gave her the Web site, I said, "Have her go to the web site.read
about this. because I'm telling you, look at me, see me? I'm smiling,
I'm happy. When was the last time you saw me?" [She replied,]
"The last time I saw you, I thought you were on death's door."
I said, "And, I felt like it." And she said, "I am
standing here in awe, I really am." And I said, "Well
I can't talk enough about this and anybody that calls me about this,
I just tell them 'You're an idiot if you don't do it!.You obviously
like to suffer then.because I'm telling you it works. Just do it.
Don't think about it, do it"
You know, I have ladies who call and they'll
say, "But it's so expensive." "Yeah, it is. I agree
it's expensive, but what's more important, your health or your pocketbook?"
If you look at it and say, "OK, it's 6 months of my life that
I'm going to devote to getting better and it's going to cost me
X amount of dollars to do that." Then guess what? You're done.
It's over with. You're not continuing for the next year or two years,
taking whatever other medication you're on or go from one doctor
to another doctor and still be miserable. It's over, it's done.
And I think attitude is 99% of getting better. I wanted to get
better so bad, I was eating it. I wanted to feel better. I did not
want to be miserable anymore. I didn't want, when my husband touched
me, to cry in pain. And then he always felt like, ". I can't
touch you, you're just like glass." That bothered me.
I used to say to him, "I'm sorry, it's not you, it's not you,
it's just me, it hurts. I'm not trying to push you away, it's not
that I don't want you to touch me. It's just that it hurts. And
I could not make him understand that because he would look at me
and still see me. He didn't understand what was going on inside
of me.
If he would squeeze me to hug me, sometimes it would be like so
unbearable. It would just really hurt. Your body aches like you
have the flu any way. That's the only way I could describe how I
ever felt. I felt like I had the flu 24/7. And then when somebody
hugs you and squeezes you tight it just felt like, "Oh my,
everything hurts and you're making it hurt more [laughs]. You're
just squeezing all those muscles together that.they don't want to
be touched."
I do go and I have been going now 2 years to a massage therapist.
Once a month, I treat myself to a massage and this lady that I go
to is very, very versed in fibromyalgia. And she knows exactly how
to treat people who have the condition with therapeutic massage.
And she's helped me a lot too. So I think everything together was
a real well greased wheel. The treatment program, the therapy program,
my own strong will to feel and get better, you had to put it all
together.
Donata:
Do you find that
there are roadblocks with doctors who don't believe in it?
Dr. Wilson:
Oh yeah, definitely. That's why I'm focusing so much in our conversation
talking to you about that because it is just so bizarre that you
can have such great results, and you would think that that would
be enough.that everybody would be really interested in knowing.
The problem is, it's almost as if the patients do too well. Because
really what you're saying a lot of people would say is just too
unbelievable.
Donata: Exactly. I hear that in people's
voices when they call me and ask me about the program. There's skepticism
in their voice and they ask the same questions over and over, "Are
you sure? Are you sure? You really do feel better? You know, I'm
constantly getting that. "You think I'd lie to you?" "First
of all, I'm sure the doctor would not recommend you calling me if
I wasn't doing better [laughs] he wouldn't want you to know that
I wasn't feeling well. But you know, I'm not going to lie to you.
It takes time. You have to go in with an open mind."
Dr. Wilson: About the expense, do you mind estimating about
how much it did cost you for 6 months?
Donata: With all the supplements that I purchased along
with the T3 packets, I would say somewhere in the vicinity of about
$1500 to $2000.
Dr. Wilson: Like you say, in a way that's expensive but
in another way, it sure isn't.
Donata: It's your life! [laughs]
Dr. Wilson: In a way, people would spend that on a lot of
things that wouldn't be worth a thing.
Donata: Right, you go out tomorrow and buy that $2000 television
set but do you really need it? You know, that kind of thing. But
I personally just don't think you can put a price on your life and
how you feel. To say, "Oh yeah, it's a lot".I can understand
there are people who are not financially in a position where they
can afford that and I do understand that. I am fortunate enough
that I'm in a position where I could afford it.
Knowing what I was getting into I explained
to my husband, "OK, my visits are covered. I pay our co-pay
on our insurance, but everything else is out of pocket." At
first he was very reluctant. And I looked at him and I said, "You
know what? I work too so I'm doing this, and that's the way it is."
Because in the beginning I was getting "Witchdoctor" and
all this crazy kind of talk because he didn't believe in it. And
I understand that, a lot of people don't. I
mean, they're very skeptical when you say holistic medication
or holistic doctors or anything like that. They just look you like
you've got five heads and you don't even know what you're
talking about because there's nothing better than a medical doctor
and they know all. "Well I'm sorry, they do not know
all." And I think there's a fine balance of both working
together. Of course, I do go to my medical doctor for my medical
check-up for normal stuff. I do see Michael. And I do see Michelle
for my annual physical with her. But I do see my medical doctor
because I do have a heart condition so I do go there and he does
check me. But I feel that I have a very good balance now in my life.
I have everything that I need. Michelle and Michael take care of
my health needs as far as my well-being. And Dr. Singh takes care
of my heart, my blood work, my cholesterol, any of that other stuff,
like making sure that I'm not diabetic because that does run in
my family. And I'm happy with that. I feel I have a very good balance,
everything I need. But I also feel that I get the most honest and
the most caring care from Michelle and Michael. I don't feel like
I'm rushed, I sit, if I have questions they answer my questions.
They're real. Not to just knock the medical profession, but then
my medical doctor, it's like you're a number. "Whisk, whisk,
get in / out I've got the next one to get in here." And then
when I'm in there I'm so nervous because I know they're going to
rush me then I forget all the things I want to ask.
Dr. Wilson: You know, it's funny, you might get a kick out
of this. When I was in medical school they actually trained us this
way, and it didn't make sense to me then and it doesn't make sense
to me now. They actually trained us to think that if you see a patient
come in with a list of symptoms, or a list of problems, you should
consider that a red flag. In their mind, if the symptoms aren't
bad enough for the patients to be able to remember or talk about
them, and they have to write them down then they must not be that
bad. And the patients must be kind of like hypochondriacs.
Donata: Oh yes, oh my gosh! [laughs]
Dr. Wilson: Isn't that incredible?
Donata: That's rediculous.
Dr. Wilson: Here they rush you and they pressure you and
they're staring at you and if you can't regurgitate it then you're
a hypochondriac.
Donata: Right, exactly.
Dr. Wilson: But you know, you forget things, I forget things.
And some things are important, but just because you can't come up
with them within that second doesn't mean they're not important.
Donata: That's right.
Dr. Wilson: I just find that amazing.
Donata: It is amazing. But I really can't say enough about
your program. I think it's wonderful and I wish more people could
get benefit from it that need it because there are a lot of people
I know that suffer from this illness and have suffered for many
years.
I wonder about patients with MS, because that's what they thought
I had at first.
Dr. Wilson: I haven't treated a patient with MS before,
but I've seen so many different things respond to it that I'm almost
to the point that "If they have a low temperature, try this
first and ask questions later." [she laughs.Right! Exactly!].
Donata:.[In the beginning]. And I'd say, "Well, I'm
getting better, I'm getting better. I'm being positive about this.
I know it's going to take some time and I know this so I don't expect
miracles today. I will expect them in a few months but not today.
And they have seen the dramatic change in me.
Dr. Wilson: Well, I sure thank you for all the time you've
given.
Donata: Oh!
My pleasure, believe me. I can't thank you enough for giving
me back my life.
Dr. Wilson: Oh, well I'm glad for the part I played in it.
Donata: If I can help someone else I'm happy to.
More...
Donata: Now I just fly up and down stairs and do what I
have to do.
Through the illness I was gaining phobias that I never had before.
Like, I didn't like to go to the mall where there were crouds of
people, which never bothered me before.
Not last Christmas but the Christmas before that, 2 years ago before
seeing Michael, I had gone to the mall to do christmas shopping
and I was in one store, I bought a few items, I came out of that
store to go out to another store. The mall was so crowded with people,
all of a sudden I felt very dizzy, felt like I was going to pass
out. Then I literally had to leave the mall.
I was like, "What's wrong with me? I love to shop."
I didn't have the energy to do it. I didn't want to do it. And it's
the best time of the year to go, to have a good time, picking up
things for people you love, who mean a lot to you, and I didn't
enjoy it for one minute. Not one minute. And I didn't even
want to put up our christmas tree that year. I love to decorate
our home. And my husband kept saying to me, "Are you going
to do this, this year..." "No," [her immediate response].
And he wouldn't push it. I didn't even bake that year. I said, "You
know what? I'm going to go to the store and buy stuff..." And
he said, "You're gonna go buy stuff?" Not
to toot my own horn or anything, but I'm a fabulous cook and I just
didn't want to even deal with it.
All those things, the things I enjoyed most in my life I had no
desire to do anymore. I didn't even like riding in the car. It was
like, "I have to go somewhere in the car? [Yuck]. OK,When's
the best time to go when there's no traffic".all these things
and never realizing that it was all related to what I was going
through.
Now that I feel better, I went to the mall and spent the whole
day there and I had a ball.
Dr. Wilson: I had a patient that started driving slower
and slower.
Donata: Yes! Like a little old lady.that's what my husband
calls me.
Dr. Wilson: She knew she was feeling better when her temperature
went up and she started getting speeding tickets. She'd be going
80 mph and felt like she was going 30. It.
Donata: [Laughs] I love it! My husband would say, "You've
never been afraid of anything!" It's weird how your body.It's
a weird feeling that it just overcomes you and takes you. It's hard
to explain. I couldn't make my husband understand because I would
tell him and he'd look at me like I had 10 heads. And I'd
say to him, "But Pete, I can't make.." [And he'd say,]
"But you've never been afraid of anything!" My husband
is my second husband and we've been together for 18 years. When
I first met him, I was 30 years old and I was raising two babies
by myself. He said to me, "You are the strongest person I have
ever met in my life! You know, I think back to when I met you, you
were alone, raising two kids by yourself, working full time."
(My children were only 3 and 5 years old.) He said, "You managed
your own place, you managed to take care of the kids, work full
time and still did it all, if and now you have all of a sudden become
this very frightened fragile person. And I said, "Well this
is all because I don't feel well and this is what you don't seem
to understand, I've lost that edge." And finally he realized
when it came back that, "Oh yeah, there was something wrong
with her." [laughs]
It's funny you don't think about all those things until afterward.
You just think about what's happening at that immediate time, and
the pain. You don't think about everything else that goes along
with it. You think you're fine. None of this stuff registers. Then
when you have a moment to think about all the things that are happening
to you, you realize, "Oh my goodness, all these things must
be related."
Dr. Wilson: You don't know how sick you were until you get
better?
Donata: Absolutely!
P.S.--
In a follow up phone call, Donata asked Dr. Wilson to guess her
favorite Christmas present she just received. This 47 year old woman,
wanted, received, and can't wait to use a brand new pair of roller
skates!
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